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hi i live in sa and have been attending a revival fellowship for nearly 2 years i have decided to call its quits they a too controlling especially when they start telling telling you what activities your children can and cant do.I am arried to a non christian and couldnt always make it to the activities they eld , now i know i have left my life is going to be trouble because they will say i have lost my salvation . I have startrd gaoing to anice pentecostal church

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Congratulations.... I'm happy to hear you made the step out before the rigor-mortis of being controlled took over your body. We may have abolished slavery in the modern society, but we still manage to find ways to get people to live lives with a chain and ball. As adults we can be responsible for our own lives... in the end we have to take the responsibility for how we live and how we teach our children.

Fair weather friends who love to pile the guilt on you if you choose to decide not to go to a prayer and fast or a flipping picnic.

Yeah, they probably won't tell you you've lost your salvation, but they'll certainly want you to believe that you've walked away from god and therefore put your soul at risk. Don't listen to them, and... my advice... really concentrate less about thinking what others think of you. It's hard not to live life for a while without looking at everything through Revival coloured glasses, but enjoy your new church and make a heap of new friends. Keep an open mind and be prepared to widen it a bit. The church you're going to now probably won't have a big solid unified list of doctrines / and assembly guidelines. At least you'll be able to decide for yourself what you think works.

You'll get more at the supermarket then the tight menu at McDonalds.

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hi i live in sa and have been attending a revival fellowship for nearly 2 years i have decided to call its quits they a too controlling especially when they start telling telling you what activities your children can and cant do.I am arried to a non christian and couldnt always make it to the activities they eld , now i know i have left my life is going to be trouble because they will say i have lost my salvation . I have startrd gaoing to anice pentecostal church

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Hi OZ Rules,

Welcome to freedom, and the forum, great to hear you found a good place to fellowship stay open and hungry for more of what God has in plan for you and yours, where you from woodcroft, vouge or elizabeth?

earth5

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hi i live in sa and have been attending a revival fellowship for nearly 2 years i have decided to call its quits they a too controlling especially when they start telling telling you what activities your children can and cant do.I am arried to a non christian and couldnt always make it to the activities they eld , now i know i have left my life is going to be trouble because they will say i have lost my salvation . I have startrd gaoing to anice pentecostal church

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Let us know how're you're going Aussie Rules. We'd be interested to know how it's moving along. The good and the bad. Don't be shy.

C'mon Aussie C'mon!