Hi

I'm not an ex member but am now the partner of one (who left GRC recently). I wanted to come along here and read, and join to learn more about the GRC so I can understand and support my partner better. 

Also wanted to join, as an "evil outsider" to try and reassure those unsure, that outsiders aren't evil. I bet you'd find most outsiders are supportive and caring. 

 If i can be of help by sharing my views please ask me anything.

I was christened an Anglican, went to an Anglican church, Catholic schools and a Lutheran church. I used to have a very strong faith but currently am unsure where I stand (i believe denomination doesn't matter - all that matters is your personal relationship with god if that is what you believe).  But i do know that I believe God is about LOVE.  Love means acceptance and forgiveness, compassion and nurturing.  Family is the most important thing in life, along with ones faith. God gave us life didn't he? Isn't life a gift? Shouldn't we enjoy it? Why would God go to all that effort to create such a beautiful world to have use spend all our time feeling shame and guilt, unable to appreciate what we have been given (unable to make our own decisions, live where we want, marry someone we truly love, and support our elderly parents who raised us)? Whats more - doesn't the bible teach that man is flawed and imperfect? Perfection is found only in God.  Hence why we follow GOD - NOT THE PASTOR!!!

Please accept my best wishes to everyone who has managed to escape, and to those who have not.  I hope you may all find true happiness.